I am constantly being asked by so many women on how I achieve my self-confidence. This has not come easy, but once you work on yourself; nothing will stop you.
There was a point where I hated myself, I had no self-worth, and I lacked self-love. When you are feeling down about yourself, you are truly unhappy; unfulfilled.
It all started with “I AM” AFFIRMATIONS in the mirror. I would say the following words in the mirror daily:
“I am beautiful, I am worthy, I am loving, I am caring, I love myself, I love you, Alyssa.”
Do you think I believed any of that? NOPE. I cried my eyes out every time I would say those things. Eventually, I started to believe those words.
I started to see my worth. I started to see a different glow in my eyes. My hair started growing. Everything around me started blossoming.
Confidence in a woman is beyond sexy and attractive.
Another way I achieved self-confidence is by removing the factor of “pleasing everyone” and “caring about what people think of me.”
I am not here to please everyone, I am here to please myself.
I do not care what people think of me as long as when I lay my head down at night, I am happy with myself.
Those opinions of others do not pay my bills. They do not provide the roof over my head, the clothes on my back, the food on my table. THAT’S ALL ME.
Honestly, if you are lacking self-confidence & self-love you must get right within. It does not matter what you have on the outside, because your insides are dying.
Change your mindset and believe in yourself. YOU ARE WORTHY, BEAUTIFUL, AND LOVING. Say those I am Affirmations in the mirror.
Get in front of the mirror, look yourself in the eye, and believe what you say. If you want to change and believe in yourself you will cry while you say those affirmations.
This is not a destination, it is a journey. You will constantly be working on yourself. I say my affirmations every day! I put sticky notes on my mirror!
We all have insecurities (men & woman), but start to embrace those things you “do not love” about yourself; you will find your self-confidence.
Keep blossoming with me,